Stay out of it & keep your mouth shut. After all, Family First!
Address your loved one & let it go.
Address your loved one & give an ultimatum, i.e. dropping a dime to new boo.
Tell new boo your loved one isn't worth it & to move on.
Tell the ex he/she has been replaced & to move on.
Arrange a meeting between the 3 and let them duke it out.
Arrange a meeting between new boo & the ex & let them duke it out.
Other - please leave a comment.
Here's a scenario for your comments/feedback.
Your loved one meets someone, a good someone, probably too good for your loved one (you know your people & you know who & what kinda of people they deserve..don't play).
The new couple seems to hit it off OK & you're actually relieved he/she has found someone new. However, unbeknownst to new boo, your loved one is still involved with his/her alleged ex. New boo & the ex know about each other, but that's about all.
You/your family really likes new boo & actually prefers him/her over the ex, but give the situation time to play out.
After a period time, you realize your loved one is either playing games, can't decide between the two or just being greedy/selfish in regards to the non-conventional 3-some. Even tho your loved one has developed feelings for new boo & he/she just can't/won't let the ex go.
Considering the history with the ex is less than desirable & there are no other ties (property, kids, etc.), would you (see poll)....?
Feel free to comment as you like.
