How do you think you would feel/react if you found out the man/woman you were dating was really the opposite sex of what they portrayed themselves to be?
Me, myself, personally, I seriously doubt that any woman could totally deceive me into believing that she was really a he. No matter how well they can seemingly disguise the truth, there's always tell-tale signs. I'm also a touchy-feely, lemme see kinda girl, even if all I do is look. I have no problem asking "bro" to drop his drawers so I can perform a thorough inspection of the goods. Most men will do it & if there's a hint of reservation about doing so.....nevermind! See ya!