To my Sleek & Straight, Wonderfully Waved, Cute & Curly, Nice, Natural & Nappy, UnbeWeavable, Wigged-Out, Beautifully Braided, Bald & Bold, Loc'd & Lovely sisters, You Are Beautiful! We are not our hair. :)

"The Wire" Fans & B-More Residents

http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=Q0OrjKzQoRths29eWsrwGg_3d_3d
I took the survey (as a die hard fan) and it didn't take long.

Taste of St. Louis this Weekend

http://www.tastestl.com/
This is how we do it!

I'm elated! As of this morning, 3 poeple have asked, "Are you losing weight?" Now I'm feeling "finer" than I already am. "princess waving*

Children Who Get Spanked Have Lower IQs - Yahoo! News

http://news.yahoo.com/s/livescience/20090925/sc_livescience/childrenwhogetspankedhaveloweriqs
I cannot co-sign with this & wonders who can.

So my know-it-all son who has always been afraid of needles (like me) is at the tattoo parlor. Y'all know the next time he needs blood drawn & he flinches, I'm gonna slap his ass to sleep!

Family First?

What would you do?

Stay out of it & keep your mouth shut. After all, Family First!

 

 2

Address your loved one & let it go.

 

 4

Address your loved one & give an ultimatum, i.e. dropping a dime to new boo.

 

 0

Tell new boo your loved one isn't worth it & to move on.

 

 0

Tell the ex he/she has been replaced & to move on.

 

 0

Arrange a meeting between the 3 and let them duke it out.

 

 0

Arrange a meeting between new boo & the ex & let them duke it out.

 

 0

Other - please leave a comment.

 

 1

Here's a scenario for your comments/feedback.

Your loved one meets someone, a good someone, probably too good for your loved one (you know your people & you know who & what kinda of people they deserve..don't play). 

The new couple seems to hit it off OK  & you're actually relieved he/she has found someone new.  However, unbeknownst to new boo, your loved one is still involved with his/her alleged ex.   New boo & the ex know about each other, but that's about all. 

You/your family really likes new boo & actually prefers him/her over the ex, but give the situation time to play out. 

After a period time, you realize your loved one is either playing games, can't decide between the two or just being greedy/selfish in regards to the non-conventional 3-some.  Even tho your loved one has developed feelings for new boo & he/she just can't/won't let the ex go. 

Considering the history with the ex is less than desirable & there are no other ties (property, kids, etc.), would you (see poll)....?

Feel free to comment as you like.