Can someone tell me when being a BBW - Big & Beautiful Woman {aka fat, overweight, big, plus and/or queen-sized chic} started meaning the same thing as BDW {Big, Desperate Woman}? My mailman be tripping sometimes, so maybe I didn't get the memo.
While I'm sure there are plenty of guys who have a genuine attraction & admiration for us plus-sized sistas, I've noticed that some of these clowns are just plain predators.
Sisters beware! Some of these guys will do whatever it takes to get you. They will tell you exactly what they think you want to hear & charm the pants right off of you, if you allow them. They are good at seeking out those who may have esteem issues or those who simply haven't been told they were beautiful enough in their lives. They see you as an untapped market & they're cashing in, big time!
Ladies keep your senses & try not to fall into the "baby you're so fine, baby I've never met anyone like you, baby I wanna be your man, baby I love you" trap.
I've seen too many of my friends fall prey to these wanna-be gigolos. Always follow your 1st mind & never, ever 2nd guess yourself. If he sounds & acts too good to be true, he probably is!
In the meantime, I'm gonna keep being a hard-ass & keep these fools at a distance.
Y'all know Mo don't take no mess!
