My Shot at Interracial Dating

Magic/Mister/Doctor Mike has a blog on a similar subject.  His reply to my reply is what prompted me to share my experience.

About 5 years ago I met a guy at conference.  I could feel him watching me for most of the presentation.  It didn't creep me out or anything, but I did wonder what the hell he found so fascinating about me. 

During the break he came over & introduced himself. His name was Kim....yeah you heard me, Kim.  The man was Asian & about 4 inches shorter than me.  I spoke back & we engaged in lite conversation....or at least he did....we had a lil language barrier problem.  I had to ask him to repeat damn near everything he said. 

After the conference he gave me his card & had written his cell # on he back, and then asked for mine.  I thought, "What the hell...give it to him."  He called me a few days later.  Honestly, I had no intentions on calling him. 

After asking him to repeat himself several times, he asked if I had Yahoo.  I told him I did & we exchanged IM IDs.  Chatting was sooooooo much better.  He invited me dinner & told me to pick the place.  I did.

The day I was supposed to meet him, I called my BFF and gave her his info, told her where I was going & was on my way.

I got to the restaurant about 30 minutes early & he was sitting outside waiting for me. He held open the door & a table was waiting for us.

I looked over the menu & mentioned there were too many good choices.  He replied, "Whatever you want is fine." (once I understood him of course).  I ordered a very pricey surf & turf meal & a few cocktails.  It was dee-lish!  The dessert tray came around & I was gonna get the Bananas Foster when he suggested I should me try something new, so I did.  I ordered key lime pie.  It was OK.  Should've gotten my damn BF.

As we tried to talk over dinner I kept asking him to repeat himself.  It was very annoying for me, but it didn't seem to bother him.

It was then that I knew I'd never see this man again. 

We finished dinner, he paid the bill & we left.

He walked me to my car, tried to kiss me but I turned my cheek.  Did I mention we were eye to eye, but he was on the curb & I was on the surface.  (Me & my damn height hangups....)  I thanked him for the lovely dinner, got in my car & left. 

He called me several times after that evening, but I never answered.  I just couldn't bear to hurt his feelings.  I also deleted the IM ID I'd given him.

He finally gave up.

I hope he found what he was looking for.  I honestly think he might've been trying to fulfill some BBBW fantasy or curiosity with me.  Don't ask me why I think that...I just do.

The End.

Now, I know y'all got questions, so fire away.