How do you feel about anal sex?
I love it.
I've tried it once & will never try it again.
I'm willing to try with special someone.
I've never tried it & have no intentions on ever doing so.
With enough liquor, who know what might happen.
I'm a man who'll pitch but refuses to catch - toys included.
I'm a man who'll pitch but refuses to catch - toys excluded.
I'm a man who's down for whatever!
Other - simply because I know I'm forgetting something.
I love it.
4
I've tried it once & will never try it again.
2
I'm willing to try with special someone.
4
I've never tried it & have no intentions on ever doing so.
1
With enough liquor, who know what might happen.
1
I'm a man who'll pitch but refuses to catch - toys included.
3
I'm a man who'll pitch but refuses to catch - toys excluded.
0
I'm a man who's down for whatever!
0
Other - simply because I know I'm forgetting something.
3
OK y'all it's about to get freaky up in here! Ladies - how you feel about anal sex, be it a penis or a toy? Personally, it's still taboo for me & I have no intentions of crossing that bridge anytime soon.
Gents - Are you a pitcher? A catcher (toy/finger)?
Check the poll (which I got a lil carried away with *lol*) if you prefer to remain anonymous.
All imma say is: if u were MY woman, you'd be posting raves on the pleasures of anal sex.
ReplyDeleteBoricua in da howse! LOL
As for MY ass?!! Only women who know what they're doing... with their tongues!
I LOVE anal sex be it toy or penis. But i use a different type of lubricant and have a technique that makes it easier for insertion.
ReplyDeleteI shoulda clicked "other" because I don't necessarily love it, but rather it' is good when I'm in the mood for it & it's done correctly.
ReplyDeleteI love it...but I have to take it REALLY easy and NO ANAL-EAZE... eeeeeek *bad memory*
ReplyDelete(it's like something I do VERRRYYY infrequently)
I'll pitch no catching here. and only pitching to a female.
ReplyDeleteSo mysteeque what are these lubricants and insertion techniques a brother needs some help. Have never been able to find that happy medium so that we can get it in and have anal sex. Cause she loves it, I've never done it and we keep trying with no success
I ain't catching a damn thing.
ReplyDeleteI had one ex to approach the topic with me & IF I was gonna venture that way, it would've been with him. He was, let's say, not as intimidating as some brothers are. *going back to the good girl corna*
ReplyDeletelove love love it! toys fingers tongue and the peenissss... wasn't something I did much in singlehood - maybe 2x if that- but now its on! truth be told: anal gives me THE BEST orgasms. EVER!
ReplyDeletelol In other words that means sometimes the little wieners are better than the plump jumbo sausages in certain situations...
ReplyDeleteI've had my first successful attempt in the world of rear entry pleasure... Before that, me and the dude tried almost 7 years ago and that was it... and he knew not to ask again.. But me and the Dude had this bet, that I should have known that I would lose, but I thought I could win it... Anyway.. his prize was that he could have what ever he wanted and I agreed and when I lost... he revealed what he wanted.. And I've never prayed for my period to show up early in my life... but I was looking for any means of getting out of this... But no pardon for me... And I was a bit or a lot worried cuz the Dude is pretty well endowed... But surprisingly with alot of lube, patience and gentleness we were fine.. Not quite sure it'll be a regular thing... But it wasn't so bad..
Not even beads????
ReplyDeleteI didn't stutter.
ReplyDeleteIm not sure how the bead thing works.. Its best I try and stay as angelic as possible... lol
ReplyDeleteI HATE THOSE THINGS!!! *ugh*
ReplyDeletenot like u were talking to me or anything *bad memory*
Although I'm SO curious, just the thought of somebody shoving anything larger than a pinkie finger in my knot hole scares the literal sh*t outta me and makes my left temple throb.
ReplyDeleteknot hole? *smh & lol*
ReplyDeleteProceed with extreme caution... lol
ReplyDeleteif it HURRRTTTTSSS
ReplyDelete.. you aint doing it right.. TRUST!
Getting past that initial point was the hardest part... I was fine after that.. Think we were just getting a lil to excited for a first time...
ReplyDeleteSorry. I'm a country girl. What can I say?
ReplyDelete*grin*
See, that's my fear. What if he doesn't know what he's doing? I don't wanna be a dang guinea pig.
ReplyDeleteI don't TRAIN folks how to do SHIT...
ReplyDeleteIt's part of the conversation process... and if somebody expressed an interest and then got to fumbling around? OH HELL NO. You get one or two "ouchies" and then I leg press your stupid ass OFF the bed
Just passing through...and not literally. ugh yall nasty *giggles
ReplyDeleteLMAO! Ok, that sounds like some wicked WWF move.
ReplyDeleteSee I was wondering about this... because you have or had anal sex... are you deemed as being nasty... and no I dont think you meant anything bad... But I was just wondering what the overall consensus was...
ReplyDeleteI've heard a lot of women say that & that's part of my curiosity.
ReplyDeleteYou CANNOT say that & walk away. I need details woman!
ReplyDeleteUh oh....2nd bad memory!
ReplyDeleteYou so damn stoopid!! LOL
ReplyDeleteThis is why I love y'all so much! The seriousness & the silliness makes for a brighter day!
I have a serious fear of something going terribly wrong, me being driven to the ER, face down-ass up in the back seat of the Chevy and having to explain my uhhh situation to a triage nurse and a doctor. *shudders at the sheer embarrassment of it all*
ReplyDeleteOkay.. I need somebody that knows what the hell he's doing, first and foremost. There are tricks to the whole deal. Trying to penetrate at the wrong angle is enough to cause pain. You've got to work the area and prepare it. The biggest hurdle is the sphincter muscle, which if I remember correctly is more sinewy, like a tendon, than actual muscle tissue. You have to relas the sphincter. Of course, the pressure usually comes from the other side.
ReplyDelete*not going to elaborate on that*
Anal sex is something I tend to plan for, not just jump right into. I like to be really relaxed, have a hot bath, a glass of wine or three. I hope the adults in the room are clear on the point that there's nothing wrong with tossing salad as long as the vegetables are freshly scrubbed. And so we begin... plenty of oral pleasure there further relaxes the muscles.
Then we move onto a well lubed finger (the skilled anal player also knows to test for entry direction with that finger).. gentle insertion.. movement of the finger... massage. From there I like to work up to two fingers. If I can deal with a man's two fingers comfortably I'm usually straight after that.
There was also a time when we "primed" it by coating ourselves thoroughly in lube and letting him slide up against me... and then he'd get closer and closer and exert a little more pressure each time. That was a crazy buildup.
And like Starr said... the orgasms... *dead*
Definitely wish I had something to drink... lol
ReplyDeleteSame here, Mo. But, then again...if they got any better or more explosive than they already are, the top of my head might blow off.
ReplyDelete*taking notes for research purposes*
ReplyDeleteOk, the play-by-play tutorial, along with my super-vivid imagination, kinda turned me on. *ahem*
ReplyDelete*hanging head in shame*
Nae Nae gone come back on monday talking about I got it in the rear and it was goooooood
ReplyDelete*blink blink*
ReplyDeleteThe hell YOU say!!!
HMPH!
I just bet it was! LOL
ReplyDeleteQuit trying to analyze me Red I'm in the corner watching and being good. lemme lone' *giggles
ReplyDelete*choking on tuna salad sandwich* (i wonder who cleaned the veggies in this one?) *giggles
ReplyDeleteDEAD
ReplyDeleteI hear ya bro! *lol*
ReplyDeleteI've only experienced this a few times... and only with someone very significant...
ReplyDelete(ok married twice... then um... how many counts as a few times?) LOL
I've tried it a few times and maybe once it was semi pleasurable for a few split seconds. But it surely isn't worth trying again. So, it's a no from this corner.
ReplyDeleteROFLMAO!!! Twin I don't want to see you on the news.
ReplyDeletelmaoooooooooooooo CAPTION READS:
ReplyDeleteWoman rushed to STL Emergency Room for treatment from an obstructed ass hole due to the attempted insertion of an over-sized well endowed big black mans dick. In hindsight (pun intended) both parties should have known that the man's mammoth monster would have violated the lady's hollow hole.. But they pressed on (he literally pressed on) and tried to insert his member in her... But she quickly realized that an extra large tube of rolled beef wouldn't fit through a tiny little donut hole... But before they both knew it... Mammoth member had made its way through the hollow hole in a not so fun or pleasing way... Thus causing the lady to freak out enormously and having to be hauled out of the Motel 3 by the paramedics with ass out and in the air while onlookers gawked and chuckled at her inability to take in such a big brother..
One woman standing outside the motel says "hell, I can take it in the ass anytime, these amateur's be messing it up for us professionals.. I mean that's what we're here for" But hospital officials state that the woman will be just fine,, but she wont be able to walk or shit right for a week... And probably anal sex will never be in this woman's future...
Please people, if you're not ready for the booty bump then stick to what you know...
You do it one time and all of a sudden you're an expert?
ReplyDeleteWould you believe the Dude just said this same shit to me 5 minutes ago... lmaoooooo
ReplyDeleteInteresting topic Cuzzin. I will say just based on what I have been told that all the ladies at least try it once, because I know a WHOLE lot of women that said they would never do it, then did it (not with me per se, just did it) and now can't live without it so I say at least try it.
ReplyDeleteI have done it, and enjoyed it with ONE PERSON because we did EVERYTHING and he took his time. But, I haven't done it sense. The person would have to be VERY special.
ReplyDeleteExit only is my policy.
ReplyDeleteBut what if you found your soul-mate & he wanted that to be included in your sex acts? Do you stand firm or do you consider it...if only for a fleeting moment? Just curious.
ReplyDeleteThat will be a policy that is told up front so there is no surprises. PERIOD.
ReplyDeletewell, I've tried it 4 times and at first its extremely painful but once its in.......its a pleasurable experience. however, i prefer the finger or tongue over the toy and penis when it comes this act.
ReplyDeleteI was lurking over on A Love Supreme's Blog & found this tidbit of info:
ReplyDeleteAnal Vibes
Anal vibrators stimulate the anus and rectum. All vibes can be used externally around the anus; however, an object inserted into the rectum must have a flange at the base. The vagina is a closed space with the cervix at the very end. The rectum is not closed and toys can be sucked up into the stomach and may require surgery for removal.
Anal stimulation with vibrators can be extremely pleasurable for men and women since there are many nerve endings, especially around the anus. Many men enjoy having their A-Spot (prostate gland) stimulated with an anal vibe. This can be an incredibly erogenous zone for a lot of men. Since the anus does not secret natural lubrication, plenty of lube must be used for anal play. Please read the lubrication section for more on lube.
For me, anal has always been a very pleasurable experience. I have yet to use my anal stimulator but fingers, tongues and penises are just fine.
ReplyDeleteAs stated before, I'd be the one wheeled into the ER with a whole lotta 'splaining to do. *smh*
ReplyDeleteCtfu.....
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