Wednesday, August 27, 2008

ATMs that Dispense $10 Bills??

Rating:
Category:Other
Anyone know of any nationwide bank ATMs that dispense $10 bills? US Bank doesn't. Commerce used to but I'm not sure if they still do or not.

Top 10 Travel Tips

I haven't done a Top 10 Thursday in a while and it's perfect timing for this.

Here are my Top 10 travel tips.  Feel free to add yours.

  1. Triple check your printed reservations for dates, scheduled arrival/departure times, room type, etc.  It's easier to correct a mistake within the first 24 hours.

  2. Copy all itineraries & confirmations on color paper and keep a copy in all travel bags.  The colored paper makes for quick & easy locating.

  3. Leave copies of said itineraries with a few trusted individuals.  I always leave my manager a copy.  She'd come to my rescue quicker than my family would.

  4. Triple check the websites for do's & don'ts - baggage/carry-on & weight limits, hotel/rental car check in/out times, etc.

  5. Overnight stays times 2 equals the amount of underwear you might want to pack.

  6. If you still use camera film (non-digital), do not send unprocessed film thru airport security's x-ray machine.  You will be sorry if you do.  (Still fuming about Orlando 2000...*dammit*)

  7. Pack travel chargers - cell phone, blue tooth, batteries, sex toys (lol), etc.

  8. Arrive at the airport at least one (1) hour early & have someone go with you if you're afraid your bag is overweight or if you're unsure if you have contraband.  That way, they can take the excess crap back with them & you save $50 for a heavy bag charge and they don't pitch your $9.00 bottle of lotion.

  9. Check in with friends/loved ones upon arrival.

  10. HAVE A FREAKIN' BLAST!

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Tuesday, August 26, 2008

My "Dream" Wedding

Every so often, like last night, I have this recurring dream about my wedding. Keep in mind, even tho I've been proposed to on a few occasions, I've never been married. The dream is always the same & the only thing that changes are the children, who obviously grow up. I can even see Mama & Muda sitting on the front row, but now they have this almost angelic glow.

The dream always starts with me & my friends in the basement of my church getting dressed, hair, make-up, etc. There's a lot of laughter & even more tears.

We go thru the motions & when the time comes for me to make my grand entrance (on my son's arm), I recognize everyone on my (the bride's) side of the church, but no one on the groom's side. As I make my way down the aisle {fabulous as I wanna be}, one (1) of the bridesmaids is unfamiliar to me & all of the groomsmen are strangers. I make it to the altar & when I look up to gaze into my beloved's eyes, his face is pixelated!!! I've been having this same dream since I was 18/19 years old & my beloved's face has always been pixelated. To make matters worse, when the Rev. is about to say his name, I wake up!! It never fails.

I've been trying for the last 15+ years to figure this out & I can't. I did however, come to the conclusion that this dream might be a subconscious reminder that one day true love & happiness will come my way, I just don't know it yet.

Monday, August 25, 2008

Saturday, August 23, 2008

Baileys Frozen Russian


Description:





Ingredients:
1 ounce Baileys(R) Irish Cream
1/4 ounce Smirnoff No. 21(TM) vodka
1/4 ounce Godiva(R) Chocolate Liqueur
2 scoops vanilla ice cream

Directions:
Pour Baileys(R) Irish Cream, Smirnoff No. 21(TM) Vodka, and Godiva(R) Chocolate Liqueur into a blender.
Add vanilla ice cream to the blender; blend, and serve in hurricane glass.

Sexy "Screams of Passion" Saturday

When engaging in sexual relations, which are you?

Very vocal (screaming, hollering, dirty talk)
 
 17

Slightly vocal (a few moans & groans, suggestive whispers)
 
 10

No vocals at all (just shut up & give/take it)
 
 0

Other (please describe in your comments)
 
 0

Ladies and Gents, see the attached poll & feel free to comment:

Friday, August 22, 2008

My Circle of Friends

I have some of the most informative, entertaining & amusing Plyville connections in the world!  Of the 72 connections, I know 12 {it was 30+ on 360} of them personally & will become acquainted with several more by months end.

Some are real friends & some are just cyber buddies.  Some I met in Plyville, some were 360 connections & the rest I go way back to Yahoo groups with.

They make me laugh & some have even made me cry.  Some are totally shocking with their revelations & some are very easy to read.  Some never say a word, but they keep coming back for more of the madness that is moi.

Some I share common experiences & tragedies with, some I know nothing at all.  Some are real & raw and some just go with the flow.  Some I've shared some deep, dark secrets with & some have done the same.  Some are true to others & themselves and some are phony & fulla ish!  Nah, I’m just kidding with that one….or am I?

Some will give me the opportunity to actually “meet” a friend when I travel & some will have a friend when they come to my stomping ground.

All in all, I’m happy with my circle of Multiply friends!  If you invited me to your circle, I thank you.  If I invited you, feel privileged!  Image  Now, I really am kidding with that one.

Have a wonderful day! Image

PS  The door is always open to real people.

Thursday, August 21, 2008

...and Another One

[When is the last time you wanted to punch someone in their face?]
Monday!  Muthafuckas who pull 6 figures shouldn’t be so damn dumb.

[What is the last thing you spent money on?]
A few things from the LB friends & family sale.

[Who is the most attractive female on your myspace friends list?]
All my friends got it going on!

[Do you think you gained or lost weight this past month?]
Neither!  …and I ain’t too fucking happy about it either.

[Crunchy or Puffy Cheetos?]
Crunchy

[Congratulations! You just had a son, what's his name?]
As if?!  …but if it could happen, it would be combo of his father & my daddy. 
 
[Congratulations! You just had a daughter, what's her name?]
As if, one mo’ ‘gin!  ….but if it could happen, I’d name her after me, since I can’t get anyone else to do it.  I need a namesake dammit!

[What are you craving right now?}
His kisses.

[What was the last thing you cried about?]
Missing my mama.

[When you buy something and your change is 2 cents, do you keep it or tell them to keep it?]  I toss it in the lil change cup most places have for those who always need a few extras cents.

 

[What color is your tissue box?]
The cardboard floral it came in.

[Do you have a ceiling fan in your room, and if so, is there dust on that?]
Hell naw.  Ceiling fans over the bed worry me.

[What is the last voicemail you received about?]
An employee garnishment.

[Have you ever blocked someone on MySpace before?]
Yes.

[Scariest thing you've experienced in the last year?]
My son’s car caught fire & he was still in it!  He escaped w/o a scratch.

[Do you wear a name tag at work?]
No

[What do you usually order from Taco Bell?]
Three hard tacos, mild sauce & a mango Fruitista.

[Have you ever had a garage sale?]
Nope, but I should. If “Clean House” ever fucking leaves the state of Cali, I’d tear my house up just to get some help.

[What color is your iPod?]
iPod?  Ha!  My MP3 player is bronze in color.

[What is the last alcoholic beverage you had?]
Melon Ball Boone’s Farm (somma y’all already know)

[Are you happy right now?]
Semi

[Who came over last?]
A man called “Hawk” (no seriously, Hawkins is his last name)


[Do you drink beer?]
Yuck.

[Have your brothers or sisters ever told you that you were adopted?]
No.  I’m the big sister & that was my job.

 

[What is your favorite key on your key chain?]
The one the continues to open the door to the place I call home.

[What was the last movie you watched at home?]
I attempted to watch “The Hunted” but fell asleep.

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

16 & Pregnant - Part I

I wouldn't wish it on anyone.  However, I take full responsibility for my actions.  I have a love that I'd never known, several grey hairs, a trunk full of disappointments with a few proud moments sprinkled here & there, endless sleepless nights and a voicemail/email full of, "Ma, I need (insert any random amount of $$ here)".  That's my boy! 

As I look(ed) around at the proud mommies to be, flossing those baby bumps (and I think that is the cutest term ever) I can't help but wonder what it would've been like to be preggo & proud.  At 16, I was anything but. 

I contemplated telling my grandmother.  I knew she'd "fix" it so I wouldn't ruin my future...after she recovered from the heart attack I would cause her.

I contemplated telling my mother (who I now know was bi-polar due to her traumatic birth & several brain surgeries) and depending on the day, that could've gone either way.

I talked it over with the donor & decided to come clean with my mother.  I practiced what I was going to say & everything.  I knew she was at the doctor's office & I would be ready when she got home.  She comes in the door & before I could say a word, she utters, "Guess what?!  I'm pregnant!"  WTF??  She can't be pregnant.  Her baby is 14  & I'm pregnant!  Damn.....

I never fessed up.  I just kept my shame to myself.  She did get wise when I was puking every morning before leaving for school.  She walked in on me once & bluntly asked, "Are you pregnant?"  I tearfully replied, "I don't know."  Hell I knew & never even took a test.  She looked in my face & said, "The hell you don't! I can see it your face."

I was still in denial for 4 months.  I not only disappointed myself, but my mama, grandparents, elder relatives & educators.  I know I truly hurt my grandparents & after I started to show, they never saw me.  I knew I wouldn't be able to take the looks in their eyes.  Cuts like a knife comes to mind.

I finally came to grips with it, when I could no longer fit my own clothes (I wasn't skinny but on the trim & slim side) had to start wearing the donors clothes...back when short sets were in.   I can say I did look cute in them.

I decided I'd just face the music.  I still went to school everyday, shame & all.  I maintained my A- GPA, but I became one of "those girls".  Fortunately, I didn't miss a beat.  It was a long hot summer in the unairconconditioned STL Public School System, but I survived it.

I had my baby a week before school started back.  Thank God, I didn't have to go back to school pregnant.

The saga will continue.....

Monday, August 18, 2008

Is FAMILY really EVERYTHING?

Maybe for you, but in the case of my clan, I must respectfully disagree.  If I could choose my family as I have my friends....well that's only wishful thinking.

I've seen people, including my family and friends, financially, emotionally and sometimes physically drained/destroyed by alleged loved ones.  I refuse to allow this to happen to me.  I wouldn't let stranger do it and damn sure refuse to let a so-called loved one do it.

Loved ones gone too soon, money spent on drugs, whores and cars that could've paid for higher education for more than a few, stress related health problems, dwindled bank accounts and so much more - family was or thought to be involved, directly and/or indirectly. 

Granted, I might be jaded because of what I've gone thru, but shit happens and the end result is how I feel.

Every so often, I catch flak from family and friends for this very reason.  They call me hateful, ornery, judgmental, self-righteous and whole host of things because I do not put up with the bullshit.  In all honesty, they can call me what they want, just don't call me collect.  

As God is my witness, they, including the one I birthed, will not have me on meds, in the police database or depleting my savings accounts behind their mess.

I love my family, I truly do.  However, my love for them will not overrule common sense.  Period.

Sunday, August 17, 2008

The Chef Jeff Project with Jeff Henderson

http://www.foodnetwork.com/food/show_cj/0,3201,FOOD_32116,00.html
Jeff Henderson grew up on the tough streets of South Central L.A. and San Diego. By the time he was 19 he was running a $35,000 a week cocaine operation. At 24, Jeff was arrested and sent to prison where he spent the next ten years behind bars. It was while incarcerated that Jeff discovered a passion for cooking and committed to turning his life around.

And he did – Jeff became the Executive Chef of Café Bellagio in Las Vegas, wrote a bestselling book and now he is focusing on giving back. In The Chef Jeff Project, Jeff takes six at-risk young adults and commits to turning their lives around by putting them to work in his catering company, Posh Urban Cuisine, and providing them the knowledge, the skills and, ultimately, the opportunity for a new life with a culinary career.

FRIEND APPRECIATION DAY *as deemed by Don1228*

Deedles (and I gave her that nic in case you didn't know) dedicated a blog to me so I'm gonna pay it forward.  Love ya girl!

Do you have an online friend who you feel deserves special recognition? I want to suggest that we all find a Friend, and not a spouse or current lover, to showcase in our blogs since there doesn't appear to be a Testimonial feature on Multiply. In this way, we all get a chance to "meet" your friend or get to know them better--from your perspective.

******************************************************************

Introducing "Big Sista Twinkle Toes" aka Suga

I "met" her in an on-line group & right away knew she was one of the few people on-line who remained true to themselves, i.e., the same person on & off-line. 

My sis, G, hails from Atlanta by way of Philly.  She's a very creative & thoughtful person, who took a leap of faith a few years back & it's working out in her favor.

Like most, she's gone thru more than her share of trials and tribulations.  Thru it all, she still manages to shine.

Via the group, 360 & the occasional chat session, we learned we had quite a few things in common, one being loved, raised & cared for by women named Dorothy Mae (her mother's name & my grandmother's name).

Here we are last summer when I went to ATL.  We had a ball! 

I won't bore you with a bunch of text, I'll just say roll over to her spot & check her out for yourself!

G, this one is for you!  Love ya girl!

{Crown} Royal Flush


Ingredients:
1/2 ounce Crown Royal(R) blended Canadian whisky
1/2 ounce peach schnapps
1/2 ounce raspberry liqueur
2 ounces cranberry juice
1 slice orange

Directions:
Add Crown Royal(R) blended Canadian whisky, peach schnapps, raspberry liqueur, and cranberry juice to a cocktail shaker filled with ice.

Shake with ice and strain into highball glass.

Garnish with orange slice.

Saturday, August 16, 2008

I Don't Care What They Say! Big Foot Lives.....

http://www.kmov.com/topstories/stories/kmov_topstories_080815_bigfoot.4cfb69d4.html
in the wooded areas of Missouri! :)

As a child I was terrified of Bigfoot, The Boogeyman, Vampires and whole host of creatures. My gramps had some family who lived in a rural & wooded area of Missouri. I would act a plum fool when they mentioned visiting that place. You could not tell me Bigfoot didn't live in the woods and wouldn't snatch me up as soon as my back was turned. *lol*

Muda always said, if I wasn't so bad, I wouldn't be so scared of things that didn't exist. Lata for you old lady! Bigfoot lives! *lol*

Friday, August 15, 2008

A Shared St. Louis - A look into gangs & violence effecting our community.

http://www.kmov.com/news/news_stories/kmov_news_sharedstlouis.htm
*sigh*

Vasectomy! What's the big deal?

Fellas, I need you to help me understand why the mere topic makes you quiver.

What are you afraid of?  Inability to perform? Loss of stamina?  Or do you just like dealing with umpteen baby mamas (for those with more than 2) & having multiple payroll garnishments?

I know a few manwhores who would greatly benefit from this procedure, as they seem to think when God said, "Be fruitful and multiply." He was speaking only to them. *eyeroll*

My son's donor definitely needs to see a doctor!  I brought it up once during a child support dispute & would've thought I said he need to be castrated, not vasectomized (is that a word? lol)   Mine is 19 and the oldest and the youngest is less than a year old.  There's 4-5 in between that I'm aware of and all I can do is smh.

I've never seen women act as ignant *lol* as men do when it comes to talk or consideration of permanent sterilization.

Fellas, talk to me!  Ladies, you already know you can & should chime in.

Thursday, August 14, 2008

"Marks" of Passion

Remember the infamous "hickies" or as we called them in STL, "passion marks"?
  1. When was the last time you gave or received one?
  2. What's your take on them now?
  3. Have you seen any adults marked up lately?
  4. And lastly, what drove us to do such a thing?

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

World's tallest woman dies in Indiana at age 53 - Yahoo! News

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080813/ap_on_re_us/obit_tallest_woman

Rise & Shine Dammit!

Rating:★★★★★
Category:Other
Thanks to becoming a "mother" again, I'm in the office at 6:30 am. Showtime & Cool J got up on time, got it cracking & so did I. The school bus was right on time and all is well with the world.

I don't care what happens around this camp today, I'm still outta this bitch at 3:00 pm sharp! :P

PS I bet my ass will be in bed before 11:59 tonite! LOL

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Craigslist vs. eBay

As I was watching one of my fav reality shows, Clean House, Niecey Nash said something that struck a cord with me.  I quote, "For every new something you bring in, something needs to go out."

I have way more everything (with the exception of money) than I really need.  I have started cleaning my clutter by helping a few relatives who are just starting out.  However, as I look into these closets, I realize I have a problem - I bring in more than I send out.

I did try my hand at selling my never worn shoes on eBay.  I think I posted 5-6 pair and only sold 1.  Luckily, she was pleased with her purchased.

I have a lot of stuff that's too good to give away, in my opinion of course, and would like to recoup a few of my dollars, if I can.

For those who are experienced with selling goods & wares via Craigslist and eBay, which do you prefer & why?

Thanking you in advance.

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Chocolate Salty Balls by Isaac Hayes aka Chef

It's not the holiday season, but this definitely showed Isaac's humourus side.

Don't forget to sing along.



Two Tablespoons of cinnamon, and 2 or 3 eggwhites
Half a stick of butter, meeeelted..
Stick it all in a bowl baby, Stir it with a wooden spoon
Mix in a Cup of Flour, you'll be in heaven soon

Say everybody have you seen my balls?
They're big and salty and brown
If you ever need a quick Pick-me-up
Just stick my balls in your mouth!
Ooh, suck on my chocolate salty balls,
Stick em in your mouth and suck em!
Suck on my Chocolate Salty balls
they're packed full of vitamins, and good for you,
So suck on My balls!

Quarter cup of unsweeted chocolate, and half cup of brandy
Then throw in a bag or two of sugar, and just a pinch of vanilla
Grease up the cookiesheet, cause I hate when my balls stick
Then preheat the oven to 350°, and give that spoon a lick

Say everybody have you seen my balls?
They're big and salty and brown
If you ever need a quick pick me up
Just stick my balls in your mouth...
Suck on my chocolate salty balls
Stick em in your mouth and suck em!
Suck on my Chocolate Salty balls
they're packed full of goodness, high in fibre
Suck on My balls!

[sniff sniff] Hey, wait a minute, what's that smell?
Smells like something burning
Well, that don't confront me none
As long as I get my rent paid on Friday.
Baby you'd better get back in the Kitchen..
Cause I've gotta Sneaking Suspicion..
Oh man baby, baby! You just burnt my balls!

Someone help me, my balls are on fire!
Get some ice baby! My balls are Burning!
Get some water, pour some water on me!
My Balls are burning!
Help me, Blow on em, Blow on em, do something!
Ooh, suck on my chocolate salty balls
Stick em in your mouth and suck em!
Suck on my Chocolate Salty balls
Put em out baby, Blow em!
Suck on my balls, baby! Suck on my balls Baby!
Suck on my red hot, salty, chocolate balls
Put em out baby, hoo, hoo
Suck on my balls...

Pioneering Musician Isaac Hayes dead at 65 - MSNBC.com

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/26125699/
Another soul legend goes to home to glory.

RIP Isaac & Walk on By

Miche Bag™ - Miche Bag With Your 3 Favorite Shells

https://www.4miche.com/index.asp
I'm not a true purse whore, per se', but I like this.

Sunday Smooth Groove ~ Walk Away From Love ~ 1975




by David Ruffin

Such a talented tragedy.

Apple Seed Cocktail


Description:





Ingredients:
- 1 oz Jose Cuervo Especial tequila
- 1/2 oz creme de cassis
- 1 1/2 oz apple juice
- 1 tsp lemon juice
- Club soda
Garnish: apple wedge

Directions:
Mix all ingredients in a cocktail shaker with ice except club soda. Pour into a tall glass and top with club soda. Garnish with apple wedge.

Saturday, August 9, 2008

The DC Sniper's Wife - on TruTV

Rating:★★★★★
Category:Other
Ex-wife & mother, Mildred Williams-Muhammad tells her story via documentary.

I certainly remember when the sniper shootings were all over the news, but this is the first time I've gotten this much detail.

I simply cannot fathom what people in the area were going thru.

Friday, August 8, 2008

MisAdventures in On-Line Dating - Chapter 1

Have you ever been on a blind date and the person you were meeting had a "physical flaw/imperfection" (not a disability) that you weren't aware of, they never bothered to mention and/or couldn't be determined from a photograph? He said he kinda favored Martin Lawrence but actually looked more like Jerome aka Romey Rome? She said she looked like Janet Jackson but was closer to Freddie Jackson? (Think Friday….I had to toss that in there so the fellas won’t think I’m just picking on them.)

Allow me to share my horror story with you:

I met this guy on-line and we had been talking on the phone for several weeks. Due to working schedules and family obligations it was hard for us to make a connection.  We exchanged several pics.  All of his were straight-faced.  Y'all already know me & all these damn teeth.

When we finally did meet, the brotha's two (2) front teeth were missing! Now I'm a sucker for a man with a nice smile (ones like Mike & STO), so needless to say, I was speechless.

He never really looked at me when talking and he was very good at hiding his smile using his hands as he talked. This lead me believe that his teeth have been missing for quite some time.

I enjoyed the meal, which he graciously paid for, but was so taken aback by the dental issue, I avoided his calls.  I wanted to say something about my shock but I just couldn't find the words.

Let me stop lying. What I really wanted to say is, "How dare you bring your snaggle-toothed ass to meet someone on a date & try to keep your dental mishap a secret?! How long did you think you could hide the fact that your front teeth were missing until someone eventually caught on?! I've got 4-eyes* (2 of which I paid damn good money for)."  {before Lasik}

At any rate, I try not to be judgmental (I'm working on this one), because I'm a big girl & I know what it's like to be judged by appearances.  However, I don’t appreciate being deceived either.  I have no problem sharing full body shots or  my jeans size when asked (one guy even told me I was too small for him...he preferred his women 300+ lbs).  We like what we like & no sense in wasting time.

Have you or someone you met withheld vital information such as this?  I know I can't be the only one.

Thursday, August 7, 2008

SYTYCD!!

Rating:★★★★★
Category:Other
I'm not TNP (who's currently unable to post) but I play her in Plyville! :)

Joshua & Twitch in the final two!!! I was hollering!

I'm so glad they performed my fav routines.

The winner will be annouced shortly...stay tuned!

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

FELLAS! I NEED YOU!

Well not you, but your input.

I know a lot of folks don't care for or listen to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, but I'm asking for your feedback on today's Strawberry Letter:

Please ignore the grammatical errors, etc.  This was copied from the website.

Date: 08/06/2008
Subject: Am I Doing Right By Her?

Hi Shirley, Steve, and Tommy im a 35 year old manager of a company and im having issues with my relationship.

My girlfriend has been complaining about my sexual performance and earlier last year on my 35th birthday (9/22) i came home early from work to see my girlfriend having sex with another man..However, i was not suprized because around June i overherd my girlfriend and her friends joking about my sexual length, width, and performance. I had thoughts of leaving her sometimes. I only think she stays with me for my money. She has an 8 year old son whom i get along with great she often tells me im a waste of a good looking brother.

Since December we both agreed i cannot satisfy her and I've been paying the man she has been cheating on me with 300 dollars a week to sleep with her and keep her satisfied. I give an extra 100 dollars if she wants him to spend the night. I'm going out of my mind right now while she is sleeping with another man.

As I write this, I'm in her sons room playing video games with him while she's with this man. More than once I have found myself sleeping in his room. . . he sleeps at the foot of the bed while i sleep at the head of the bed. I often cry myself to sleep and recently she has been talking to me with attitudes and disrespecting me and telling her friends. Her friends now call me Norbit and think its funny....i hate my life. I am a 35 year old man sleeping in a small bed with an 8 year old with super hero bedsheets.

Is there anyway my relationship could get any worse than this?

ps. Shirley does size really matter?

sincerly Am I Doing Right By Her?

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

Way Back Wed.~ Weekend Girl ~ 1985




by SOS Band

I was only 13 when this was released & it was my jam. I really was a weekend girl. Damn shame, I had more fun when I had a curfew than I have now & I don't answer to anyone.

Just the Black Notes! (Black History)

http://pjcockrell.wordpress.com/2007/11/22/amazing-grace-just-the-black-notes/
I jacked this from Nae & feel the need to share with my connects, etc. If this doesn't "move" you in some sort of way, you have no soul....in my humble opinion, of course.

Paternity Test Tuesday (jacked from Rickey Smiley)

Ever you had to have/order a paternity test?

No, there was never any question of paternity.
 
 9

Yes, I knew I was/he was the father, but still wanted concrete evidence.
 
 2

Yes, I doubted I was the father & I was wrong.
 
 0

Yes, I doubted I was the father & I was right.
 
 0

No & now that you bring it up, maybe I should be tested.
 
 0

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A question for the fathers, alleged fathers & mothers alike:

Have you ever had to have/order a paternity test? Feel free to elaborate as you wish.

I'm no saint & I have a past (somewhat scandolous, depending on who you ask) but I was never fucking that fast & furious to where there could be a question as to who fathered my child.  No guest starring on Maury for me.  Naw chief...ain't happening.

For what it's worth, TJ never denied fathering my child & he was a damn good dad for the first three years & then just fell off. He's always been in the boy's life, but not like I feel he should have.

A poll is above for all & especially for those who wish to remain anonymous.

Monday, August 4, 2008

Eye Candy for the Ladies

And can we focus…yet again…on Nelly’s swexiness he is providing with his alternate album cover for Brass Knuckles.  I’ll let you have a moment to yourselves.

The original’s not too bad either.

Friday, August 1, 2008

Quick Question - Lotto Winners

Rating:★★★
Category:Other
Ripped from the Headlines (insert the L&O doink-doink sound)

Do you think $1,000,000 + Lottery Winners should be required to quit their jobs in order to make room for someone who really needs the gig?

The floor is open.

Multiply

http://msmo72.multiply.com/journal/item/51/Her_Name_His_Name_You_Tell_Me.